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November 27, 2007

The Business of Being Born

Filed under: pregnancy stuff, birth stuff, motherhood stuff, misc stuff - Administrator @ 5:35 pm

I was lucky enough to see a pre-release screening of the Ricki Lake produced documentary The Business of Being Born a few weeks ago at my midwife’s birth center.

Obviously I am a fan of giving birth at home, having had both Rosie and Sam at home in our bathtub, so the movie was like preaching to the choir for me. I also know that a homebirth is not the right choice for every woman, but this movie has a lot of great information that I think most mainstream moms don’t realize when they check into the hospital to have a baby. The sad truth is that a great number of decisions made during the labor and delivery process are made for the convenience of the doctor and hospital, and to avoid any possibility of a lawsuit - not necessarily what is best for the mother and baby.

I highly recommend that every woman see this movie - heck, every person should see this movie. It will be released in a few markets in January, and then available on Netflix shortly after that.

Here are some details, taken directly from the press materials for the movie:

Birth is a miracle, a rite of passage, a natural part of life. But birth is also big business.

Compelled to explore the subject after the delivery of her first child, actress Ricki Lake recruits filmmaker Abby Epstein to question the way American women have babies.

In 2001, Ricki Lake gave birth to her second child with the assistance of a midwife in her home bathtub. She made the choice for a home birth after she experienced unwanted medical interventions while delivering her first child at a hospital birthing center. Ricki succeeded in giving birth on her own terms and the experience was so unexpectedly empowering and life-changing that she felt every woman should know what they could be missing out on. Ricki approached filmmaker Abby Epstein (Director of Emmy-Award winning UNTIL THE VIOLENCE STOPS) to collaborate on a film that would examine birth culture in America.

Epstein gains access to several pregnant New York City women as they weigh their options. Some of these women are or will become clients of Cara Muhlhahn, a charismatic midwife who, between birth events, shares both memories and footage of her own birth experience.

Footage of women having babies punctuates THE BUSINESS OF BEING BORN. Each experience is unique; all are equally beautiful and equally surprising. Giving birth is clearly the most physically challenging event these women have ever gone through, but it is also the most emotionally rewarding.

Along the way, Epstein conducts interviews with a number of obstetricians, experts and advocates about the history, culture and economics of childbirth. The film’s fundamental question: should most births be viewed as a natural life process, or should every delivery be treated as a potential medical emergency?

As Epstein uncovers some surprising answers, her own pregnancy adds a very personal dimension to THE BUSINESS OF BEING BORN, a must-see movie for anyone even thinking about having a baby.

What We Learn From

THE BUSINESS OF BEING BORN

To most people, the idea of giving birth outside of a hospital seems foolish and even dangerous: why would any parent limit their newborn’s access to technology in the event of an emergency? Why would any couple put their child’s life in the hands of a midwife instead of an obstetrician?

“Most obstetricians,” we learn from obstetrician Dr. Michel Odent, “have no idea what a birth can be like.”

Adds Susan Hodges, president of the organization called Citizens for Midwifery: “Very few doctors have ever observed a normal birth, either in medical school or in the hospital. It [normal birth] is almost an oxymoron.”

Epstein’s camera verifies this when she asks three female OB/GYN residents at NYU’s Bellevue Hospital Center how often they get to see “a fully natural birth.” “Rarely,” one says. “Almost never,” says another.

Indeed, Epstein’s own obstetrician, Dr. Jacques Mortiz of New York City’s St. Luke’s Roosevelt Hospital, tells her, “I always think that midwives do a better job at the normal deliveries than we do. For a normal, low-risk woman, it’s overkill going to a doctor, it’s almost too much. The doctor is not really excited about things when they’re normal.”

“An obstetrician is a trained surgeon,” explains Carolyn Havens Neimann, a certified nurse-midwife.

“They should be doing childbirth surgery all day, every day, when needed,” adds Elan Vital McAllister, president of New York’s Choices In Childbirth. “They should not be doing normal births because they’re not trained in it. They have no idea how to do it.”

In America, midwives attend less than 8% of all births and less than 1% of those that occur outside a hospital. At the same time, the US has the second worst newborn death rate in the developed world.

So how did we get here?

In 1900, 95% of all births took place in the home. In 1938, half the births took place at home, and the trend continued to spiral downward.

According to Robbie Davis-Floyd, a PhD in medical anthropology, “In the early 1900s, physicians in the east but also in the deep south to some extent went on a very effective smear campaign against midwives.” Davis-Floyd cites one poster that invoked racist imagery, depicting “a black granny midwife in a very poor home.”

“It was sort of a cultural shift where midwives were portrayed as a vestige of the old country,” adds Tina Cassidy, author of the book Birth: The Surprising History of How We Are Born. “They were [portrayed as] dirty, they were ignorant, they were illiterate.” At the same time, “Hospitals were offered as this gleaming, wonderful place where you could go and have a baby that would be cleaner and safer. The reality of course was that giving birth with an obstetrician at that time was much more dangerous than giving birth with a midwife because as doctors were graduating from medical school, many had not witnessed a live birth before they went out to practice.”

As public heath expert Nadine Goodman puts it, “All of sudden, the concept of ‘normal’ changed,” as hospitals specializing in obstetrics started springing up around the country, creating a demand for their services as well as some stigmatizing alternatives.

But as new drugs, technologies and techniques developed, did hospital childbirth get safer? Not really. Indeed, when it comes to obstetrics, mainstream medicine seems to feel its way – dangerously – in the dark.

THE BUSINESS OF BEING BORN touches on a number of past medical interventions that have gone terribly wrong. The film explores the use of the drug scopolamine in the 40s, 50s and 60s that put mothers into a kind of “twilight sleep” that didn’t stop pain, but merely eliminated the memory of pain by attacking the brain functions responsible for self-awareness and self-control, resulting in a kind of psychosis, followed by post-traumatic stress-like memories in thousands of new mothers. In the 30s doctors routinely took x-rays of the pelvis, resulting in babies with cancer. In the 70s, use of the drug thalidomide, used for morning sickness, caused birth defects, while in the 90s, the drug Cytotec was used to stimulate contractions in mothers who had undergone previous Cesarean section. This was later found to cause ruptured uteruses and high infant mortality.

“The point here,” observes Dr. Marsden Wagner, former director of Women’s and Children’s Health, World Health Organization, “is there’s not a good history in obstetric practice of careful study of the long term effects of all these interventions. This is why, if you really want a humanized birth, the best thing to do is get the hell out of the hospital.”

The film points out that some of the most traditional practices of contemporary obstetrics have everything to do with the convenience of the physician, but can actually make delivery more difficult for the mother.

Every woman depicted giving birth on TV or at the movies is shown in the “lithotomy position,” on her back on a gurney, legs suspended in stirrups, the doctor standing between her legs and encouraging her to “push.”

“The lithotomy position is the most physiologically dysfunctional position ever invented,” says medical anthropologist Robbie Davis-Floyd, author of Birth as an American Rite of Passage. “Putting the mother flat on her back literally makes the pelvis smaller, makes it much more difficult for the woman to use her stomach muscles to push, and therefore makes it much more likely for an episiotomy to be cut, or for forceps to be used, or for the vacuum extractor to be used.”

Obstetrician Dr. Ronaldo Cortes prefers the mother to squat during labor, explaining that while this position is easier for the mother and her baby, squatting is much more stressful on the doctor, whose job is to “catch” the baby.

It also seems like every conversation about an impending birth includes a mention of the coveted “epidural,” a lumbar injection that kills pain below the waist. But, as Ricki Lake observes, the introduction of one drug during her first delivery caused “a big snowball effect.” The epidural kills pain but it also retards natural contractions. To keep contractions active, a drug call pitocin is often administered. The pitocin makes contractions longer, stronger and closer together, causing more pain, and then consequently another epidural. This then requires more pitocin, which again causes longer and stronger contractions, and stress to the baby. Ultimately, this often triggers an emergency Cesarean section. The sum total of such interventions is ostensibly a shorter labor, benefiting the hospital, but certainly a more stressful one for the mother and baby.

Finally, statistics indicate that the use of Cesarean section, a major surgery, is being widely employed, more as a measure of convenience for both doctor and patient instead of a last resort in the event of an emergency.

Dr. Michael Brodman, Chief OB/GYN at New York’s Mount Sinai Hospital, cites a study that reveals the peak hours for Cesarean section procedures are 4:00pm and 10:00pm. Brodman interprets the data from the perspective of the hospital-based physician: “It’s obvious,” he says, “that four in the afternoon is ‘It’s late in the day, I don’t know what’s going on here, I want to get out of here and the ten o’clock at night is, ‘I don’t want to be up all night.’”

“Somebody clearly is going to have to step in and stop the trend” of high C-section rates, Brodman warns, “or else we’re going to get to 100%.”

After completing THE BUSINESS OF BEING BORN, Epstein and Lake have drawn the conclusion that many women unknowingly give up a potentially life-altering and empowering experience. A hospital environment is not conducive to the true needs of a laboring woman, making a birth without intervention almost impossible. As a result, the physician, instead of the mother, delivers the baby,

During a visit with Lake at her home in California, Epstein, who was pregnant at the time, asked about Lake’s contrasting birth experiences. It’s clear that Epstein was there as both a journalist and someone who was making some very personal decisions about the delivery of her own child.

“I wanted a home birth experience almost as much as I wanted a second child,” Lake offers. “I love pain medication, I love numbing myself. I don’t want to feel even a headache. I’m that person, too. But when it came to giving birth, it wasn’t an illness, it wasn’t something that needed to be numbed. It was something to be experienced.”

In a subsequent interview, Lake tries to explain the significance of the event:

“That is just everything to me,” she says. “I could start sobbing right now. It was so empowering. This was what I was after. This is what I wanted for my child.”

Like most American women, Epstein always imagined herself giving birth in a hospital, and, due to the premature arrival of her child, this was indeed her path. But she remains convinced that THE BUSINESS OF BEING BORN makes a compelling argument for more humanistic approaches to birth, challenging the ideals of our technocratic society which places absolute faith in machines and technology.

“In a culture where all of our rituals have become standardized and commercialized, birth is the one rite of passage that can remain individualized and sacred if parents are exposed to the truth behind the medical myths,” Epstein said recently.

Epstein and Lake also hope audiences and policy makers will recognize the economic truth about birth outside of a hospital: it’s cheaper, something insurance companies should theoretically embrace.

Carol Leonard, a nurse-midwife and director of the New Hampshire Birth Center, cites that hospitals in her state charge $13,000 for a normal vaginal birth, while she charges $4,000 “for everything, including post-natal care.” Births that take place with multiple interventions and Cesarean section can cost as much as $35,000.

However, as medical anthropologist Robbie Davis-Floyd points out, the medical-industrial complex – the relationship between hospitals, the powerful lobby group the American Medical Association, and the insurance companies – has a history of discouraging home births, and discouraging midwives who practice in a hospital setting. Indeed, Epstein’s camera captures one birth center associate struggling to get an insurance company to re-process a claim from a new mother who gave birth at their facility. While Mayra, one of the film’s expectant mothers who chose home birth, reports that her insurance company had a hard time understanding that there even was an alternative to hospital birth.

“The whole insurance thing has been kind of crazy,” Mayra tells Epstein. “Everyone was acting like I had a third eye. It’s cheaper to have a birth with a midwife; you’d think they would be all over it. So it kind of makes you wonder what the agenda is.”

“Why has the medical model of birth gone unchallenged for so long?” Epstein and Lake ask. “And why do less than 8% of Americans take advantage of the benefits of midwifery, which is statistically safer and cheaper than physician-attended birth?”

As the nation’s heath care crisis continues to grow, the filmmakers hope THE BUSINESS OF BEING BORN will ultimately play a role in heath-care reform and raise awareness of the options for parents of the future. They also hope to enlighten and inspire parents to advocate for themselves and to “own” their birth experience wherever it takes place.

November 14, 2007

Elbows

Filed under: cute stuff said - Administrator @ 10:06 am

Rosie: (playing with her kneecaps) “I have elbows on my knees”

Me: “Elbows?”

Rosie: “Yeah, I have elbows on my knees”

Me: “Oh, your kneecaps, those are kneecaps, not elbows”

Rosie: “No, they’re elbows. They’re wiggly.”

That’s my girl

Filed under: cute stuff said - Administrator @ 10:03 am

Rosie: (waving her fairy princess wand) “I’m a princess!”

Joe: “Yes you are a princess. Did you make a wish”

Rosie: “A wish?”

Joe: “Yeah, with your magic wand, did you wish for something?”

Rosie: “I wish for lots and lots of shoes!”

November 11, 2007

Kids update Nov. 07

Filed under: Rosie stuff, Sam stuff - Administrator @ 7:08 pm

Aah - another month already! Sammy just turned 4 months, and Rosie is 3 days shy of 28 months. This past month was a busy one. We went on a trip to Florida to visit my family and help out with the new
Joyful Yoga
studio opening. After that - we had a fun halloween, and Joe’s 39th birthday (on the same day!)

As you can see - for Halloween Rosie was a ladybug (or leggybug as she says) and Sammy was a bee. Joe was also a bee and I was a butterfly. I am a halloween nerd and I love to dress up every year and I prefer to have costumes that all coordinate. Rosie had such a fun time trick-or-treating. She was so cute saying “trick or treat” and she always remembered to say “thank you” sometimes reversing the order of the two.

We went to Aunt P’s house to trick-or-treat with Marisa, Noah, Cory and Ari - and I made cupcakes for Joe’s birthday that we ate afterward. Rosie and I only lasted a couple blocks, then it started to sprinkle a little, so we headed back. But that was plenty of candy for her (translation, ME) anyway (I am still eating it). Rosie was allowed one piece of candy after we got back with her stash. Then, when we got home, the candy was magically replaced with raisins and granola bars. She also got a few non-candy items from some houses - small things of bubbles and play-dough and stickers which I really appreciated and wish more parents would do.

Florida was a lot of fun too. It was Sam’s first trip to the beach.


He didn’t like the cold ocean though - I put his toes in and he started crying - he didn’t like GiGi and Papa’s pool either. I think it was just the temperature he objected to, because he loves the water when we take a bath.

It was great for Rosie and Sam to hang out with GiGi and Papa. And Rosie loved playing with cousin Ella every day.


We also got to see Auntie Em & Uncle Gregg; Aunt Jackie; Aunt Rochelle, Uncle Steve and cousin Stephen; Aunt Renee, Uncle Ryan, cousins Kylie and twins Joey and Anthony, and the other Uncle Ryan for a few minutes. And Great-ma and Uncle BJ too. Whew! It almost took our whole week down there just to coordinate visits with everyone.


Papa and his namesake grandson - Sam and Sammy - so sweet…

Rosie and Ella are such good friends - they took baths together…

And played on the swing in the back lanai at GiGi’s after swimming in the pool…

And they were the cool kids in the back of Uncle Ryan’s car we borrowed - watching Charlie & Lola and Callliou on the DVD player…

Rosie is a great little swimmer - still only needing her arm swimmies and a little supervision to be able to swim on her own…

She loved playing in the sand and collecting seashells. She got a little too agressive trying to swim by herself (without her swimmies) in the ocean and a big wave took her under and scared her. After that she was much more careful, and that made it much easier for me to relax and enjoy the sunshine without hovering on the edge of my lounge chair as she fearlessly ran towards the ocean.

We carved 2 pumpkins for Halloween - Rosie thought the inside of the pumpkins was “yucky” - but she liked it when I took the pumpkin seeds and roasted them for her… Daddy carved her a ghost that said “boo” and I carved her a silly face.

Potty learning is still the same - sometimes she wants to go on the big potty or her “special own” little potty - but sometimes not. She was quite proud of this poo on the potty (as was her daddy). We are taking it nice and slow…

Sam has been growing so fast. He is just shy of 20 lbs (19lbs 13.5 o z - clothed) and he is wearing the same size diapers as Rosie and is in 12 months clothes already! He can now sit up for several seconds before eventually leaning and falling over to the side.

He is such a smiley, happy baby - always cooing and laughing. He has been loving trying out his voice - going from a high pitched squeal to a lower gurgle. He usually does these voice exercises at around 6am - not great timing for mommy and daddy…
It is funny how he is so different from how Rosie was at this age. Rosie was much more intense, crying a lot, she would not let anyone else hold her except Joe and I. I think this probably had something to do with the fact that I was more intense as a first time mother, and really didn’t want her out of my immediate care. Now, I am a much more mellow mother, sharing Sam with almost everyone “Sure, you can hold the baby - what’s your name again” :-)

Sam’s new favorite thing is jumping in his jumparoo. I can’t believe he already knows how to jump and he loves it - he will jump non-stop for over 1/2 hour sometimes! Though this usually tires him out pretty fast and if I am not paying attention - I will look over and find a sleeping baby in the jumparoo (not a proud parenting moment). He also tries to stand up when I am holding him now - he is really trying to use his legs a lot. He is also starting to control his hands better and can actually grab toys now and get them into his mouth to chew on. Speaking of chewing, he is chewing on his hands all the time and drooling a lot. It wouldn’t surprise me to see some teeth pop through soon. He also found his thumb, and when he is not chewing in his fists, he will sometimes settle for sucking on his thumb…


Joe loves having another male in the house to watch college football with. Sammy will stare at the TV and it really seems like he is watching it sometimes…Though I have to make sure there are no kids in the room if Michigan dare have a bad game - or else Rosie would learn some new swear words…

Sammy usually naps on the couch downstairs during the day - but I am going to have to find a new place for him as he has squirmed his way off the couch on a couple occasions. It is always a frightening sound - the “thud” then “waaaa” of a crying baby as he wakes himself up by falling off the couch (again, not my proudest moment as a mother). Even when I put him in the corner of the couch and surround him with pillows, he somehow squirms his way over almost 2 feet to the edge of the couch and eventually off if I dont catch him in time… Luckily he is a strong, sturdy babe and the fall only scared him. As soon as I picked him up and cuddled him for a minute, he started smiling and I knew everything was ok…


Everytime I turn around, I feel that Rosie is so much older. She is definitely no longer a toddler, she is a true kid now. She learned to ride Ella’s scooter when we were in Florida, and she thought it was great fun.

She has the vocabulary and the intonation of a 12 year old already, and says some things that I could do without. She has started saying “don’t tell me no” when I tell her “no” to something (which is a phrase she picked up from me, as I tell her that when she is being bratty and telling me “no”.

For the most part though, she is very polite and courteous, always offering to share her food or drink, saying “would you like a sip?” , “would you like a little taste?” or “would you like a bite?” She is a little too adamant in her desire to share, because even if you say “no, thank you” she will force whatever item of food or drink she is offering into your mouth, like it or not.

She always cracks me up in the morning when we allow her a few episodes of one of her favorite programs we have TiVo’d (her current faves being Oswald, Wilbur, Maggie and the Ferocious Beast, Maisy, and Super Why) - the TiVo automatically records new episodes and every day Rosie gets excited and sucks in her breath and says “we got a new one!” in a deep, almost mysterious voice.


I am so blessed and can’t believe how lucky I am to have such amazing children.

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