THE GREEN(wald) HOUSE … (growing rosemary & raising a little wolf)

June 30, 2007

Blessingway

Filed under: pregnancy stuff, motherhood stuff - Administrator @ 9:01 am

Last weekend my awesome group of mommy friends got together and threw a Blessingway or Mother’s Blessing for me and 2 other of my fellow pregnant mamas.

It was really sweet and powerful at the same time. We started off by all taking a part in weaving floral wreaths for us honorees to wear on our heads (we all brought a variety of flowers, either from our own yards, or storebought) - It made me really feel like a goddess with my headpiece on. Then we went around in a circle and took turns telling our maternal lineage (I am Chelsea, Daughter of Theresa Adelaide, Grandaughter of Willis Margaret, Great-Granddaughter of Ella Florence, and Mother to Rosemary Florence) - and then we told our birth stories and what we learned from the birth and motherhood. It was really touching to hear the emotional stories of my friends and their honesty and what they have learned. I think the most common theme was just allowing ourselves to let go and realize you can’t be in control all the time, whether during birth, or just in the day-to-day trials of being a mom. Things aren’t always going to go as planned, and we have to be Ok with that and not judge ourselves for being “bad moms” if things don’t go as we want or expect them to…

After our birth stories, we moved on to making bead necklaces (each mama had brought beads to contribute) - and decorating our pregnant bellies with henna.

I LOVE the design on my belly and the way it came out…

After the henna/necklace making - we moved on to the food, and I indulged in a delicious mediterranean/middle eastern feast prepared with love by my mama friends.

After eating, we sat in a circle and did a wrist-binding ceremony, linking us all together with the same thread. Then we cut the thread, giving us each a piece to braid and wear on our wrists to remind us of the support of our circle of sisters. We also went around the circle and each read a poem or short reading about birth and/or motherhood.

The final part was the cake! S had her friend make us an amazing goddess cake that was delicious!

It was great to be surrounded with so much love and caring and support from my women friends and fellow mamas. I am truly blessed to have such a wonderful group of intelligent, fun, supportive women to call my friends…

*photos courtesy of my friend S - the designated photographer of the group*

June 21, 2007

Place yer bets!

Filed under: pregnancy stuff, birth stuff - Administrator @ 12:34 pm

Ok - since “guess the sex” and “guess the due date” are everybody’s favorite pregnancy games - let’s make it official…
Comment with your guesses on whether this will be a boy or a girl - and what the birthdate will be… If you want, you can guess time of day, weight, etc. too…
Oh - My technical “due date” is July 17th - I will be 40 weeks then - but since Rosie came at 37 weeks - and this baby is already WAY low and the head is engaged in my pelvis - the odds are looking like it might be another early baby… But - who knows? Watch this baby be late just to surprise me…

My guess - boy - born July 1, 3:44pm - 7lbs 7 oz.

June 14, 2007

23 months!

Filed under: Rosie stuff - Administrator @ 8:03 pm

This is it - the last month before Rosie is officially 2 years old! And the last month (weeks?) that she is an only child. She has been such a big girl lately - but she has definitely been much more of a handful - saying “NO” a lot and asserting her independence and her own ideas…

Getting dressed is still somewhat of a battle - she is still insisting on wearing dresses mostly - and she usually chooses one of the most fancy dresses hanging in her closet - and then she changes her shoes several times, resulting in shoes that rarely match the outfit, sometimes even wearing 2 different shoes! I am trying to pick my battles, and if she insists on dressing in a crazy mis-matched style - I don’t have enough energy to battle with her over something so simple..

She still loves taking a bath, and usually insists that mommy and daddy accompany her in the “big bath”. Occasionally we use the sink or the “little bath” when Mommy is feeling too tired or worn out for the whole bath routine. She loves playing with bubbles and putting them on her hair, our hair, our faces, etc. She also has to have EVERY single bath toy in the tub at the same time, making it quite crowded with all 3 of us and all the toys in there.

We have been spending a lot of time outdoors enjoying the nice weather. Rosie loves it when we blow bubbles and she can run around and pop them. I actually bought a battery powered bubble gun as I was getting so out of breath and felt like I was going to pass out with all Rosie’s requests for “more bubbles”. We have been playing a lot in the garden too. Rosie loves to pick the strawberries and eat them right off the plants. I can’t wait until the tomatoes and other veggies are ready to pick and eat fresh from the garden. I love being able to show Rosie how food grows and giving her the freshest possible things to eat.

We got Rosie a little pool a few weeks ago to splash in since the weather has gotten so hot. This usually results in a lot of naked time too…

One of her new favorite games is to take all the toys from the sandbox and throw them into the pool (along with a bunch of sand), and then bring them all back into the sandbox (with a bunch of water) and then throw everything off the deck onto the grass.

I think we are just going to end up with 2 containers of wet sand by the time summer is over.

Another one of Rosie’s favorite things is going to the park with Mommy and Daddy. She loves climbing on the playstructures and playing on the slides and swings.



She is such a big girl now that I rarely have to accompany her up the playstructure, she can climb up and navigate everything on her own. I usually just have to supervise from the bottom to make sure the bigger kids aren’t playing too rough and getting in her way or pushing her around.

We just finished our nanny job for the year as school is out now and so we will not be watching Rocco 2 days a week anymore. However, Rosie and Rocco have become such good friends, almost like brother and sister, and I have become good friends with Rocco’s mom- so we are planning on getting together on a somewhat regular basis throughout the summer so Rosie and Rocco can still hang out and play.

Rosie also has a new favorite game where she likes to sit in the drivers seat of our cars and “peetend” to drive. She looks so funny sitting there all serious - pushing buttons and trying to turn the wheel…

Her vocabulary continues to astound me. She talks in full sentences, sometimes almost full paragraphs, and she is constantly coming up with new phrases that crack me up. Some of the new things Rosie has been saying this month are:
“Where could it be? - oh THERE it is!” - she says this when she drops something behind her back and pretends like she doesn’t know where it is - it is accompanied by the cutest expression and her holding her hands out and palms up.
“I love Dora” “I love kitty” “I love dolly” - she has been professing her love for anything and everything - and usually it comes with her holding the item up next to her face and nuzzling it.
“I’m funny” “I’m silly” or “I’m goofy” - she says whenever she makes me laugh - which in turn just makes me laugh more…
“I’m back!” she announces when she walks into a room
“I did it myself” - she loves to be independent
“hi mommy, I wake up!” she says in the morning and after her naps
There are also phrases I could do without - like announcing in a loud voice when Joe walks into the bathroom “Daddy’s crappin!”
She is really loving music lately and singing along to “little lamby” (mary had a little lamb), “o matdonno farm” (old macdonald), “pickled peppers” (peter piper) “unda bridge fall down” (london bridge - not the Fergie version) and of course the “rosie song” (ring around the rosie). In between songs, she always says “what comes next?” and when I say “I don’t know” she says “I don’t know either”.

I am really trying to give her a lot of attention and love lately - because I know things will change once the new baby gets here. I hope that Rosie doesn’t feel too neglected or ignored and she adapts well to being a big sister. I know I will always look at her as my “baby” - my sweet first born, my angel. I love her so much and it is hard to believe I will feel this much love for another child too. I am so blessed to have such a wonderful daughter, and I am so looking forward to our relationship growing and changing as the years go by - as she becomes my big girl, my helper, my friend.

June 11, 2007

Awesome pregnancy photo shoot

Filed under: pregnancy stuff - Administrator @ 3:16 pm

Over the weekend, my friend S came over to take some pregnancy photos of me.

I am not nearly as eloquent in my writing as she is - so I will defer to her blog post on the day.

Go here to read more and see more of the amazing photos she took. CAUTION - there are some naked photos - so don’t go there if you are not prepared to see some unclothed body parts…

I am blessed to have such a talented friend….

June 7, 2007

I’m 33… and 33!

Filed under: pregnancy stuff - Administrator @ 8:24 am

That is… I just turned 33 years old and at the same time I was 33 weeks pregnant! Funny how those milestones correspond - and how they did when I was pregnant with Rosie too - I turned 31 the week I was 31 weeks pregnant with her… what a co-inky-dink!

Here is a photo of me on my b-day - I was 33 weeks, 3 days…

At my last midwife appt (the day before my b-day) the baby had dropped REALLY low and the head was down and fully engaged in my pelvis… I actually went from measuring a little big - to measuring small (32 weeks for my 33 weeks 2 days) - and my mw said that was because the baby was SO low and already in my pelvis. Considering Rosie was born at 37 weeks exactly - they think I am just one of those mamas who grows babies really quick and delivers before 40 weeks. So, instead of the July 17th due date - they are thinking more along the lines of last week of June/first week of July! Yipes! That means I only have a few weeks to go!

I am hoping to hold out until at least July 1st - as we have too many family b-days/holidays/anniversaries in June already… Anytime after July 1st is OK with me… though a 7/7/07 b-day would be really cool too!

The last couple days I have been feeling a lot of pressure on my pubic bone - right in the front - it makes sitting upright really uncomfortable…

I did my belly cast at 33 weeks too - even though I know it is really early - but since I waited too long last time, and didn’t get a chance to do it - I didn’t want to take any chances this time… It doesn’t look as big as my belly REALLY is - I think it spread out a bit after I took it off to dry - but it is still pretty cool…


Rosie loves my big baby belly….

I plan on doing another one in a few more weeks (pending baby’s arrival of course)…

Oh, and my friend S is coming over this weekend to take some professional belly photos - I am so excited - we have some great ideas and hopefully I will have some really great new pics to post soon!

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